Secret Number One: You have to become a valuable alpha male in a girl’s eyes.
Generally speaking, an alpha male has no trouble attracting girls by nature. Female psychology has made it clear how girls subconsciously love alpha males – guys who are full of confidence, have a high social status and can make girls feel secure with their mere presence. Alpha males also tend to make their own decisions, no matter what the case may be, and they never look for approval from other people before doing anything, either. This makes them all the more attractive in the eyes of girls because every girls loves being subordinate, whether they admit it or not. This will work out especially well if the guy that the girl currently loves isn’t an alpha male.
Secret Number Two: You have to build an emotional bond with the girl that you like.
When trying to attract a girl who already loves someone else, you have to make her feel familiar around you. In other words, you need to make her feel like she has known you forever. How can you do this? Well, for starters, you can start talking to her about things that you know will interest her. You can also talk to her about her dreams and fantasies, and make it seem like you can fulfill those dreams and fantasies someday. When talking to her, you should never try and convince her to forget out the guy that she likes, either. In fact, you should never even bring up that guy, if you can help it. Instead, just focus on creating a strong and emotional bond with her and seduce her subtly by using words, so you can control her feelings in the long run and make her feel good whenever you want to. Alternatively, you can also use Fractionation on her although it could well be a little overkill…
Secret Number Three: You have to convince her that you are perfect for her.
Once she has become more comfortable talking to you about her hopes and dreams, you can ask her what she thinks a perfect relationship should be like. Once you do this, you can then start bringing up the guy that she currently loves, so that she can compare him to the ideal man that she has in her head. Soon thereafter, she will realize that the guy that she loves right now isn’t the guy that she should be with. It’s all worth the effort– it may take time for her to get to like you, but when she realizes that it should be you, you know it is going to be an electrifying moment.